Ines Chavez Uy (Ferrer Kuchiam Lo)
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Vital Information
- Born: Unknown date in Tuliw-Malinao-Albay-Philippines (Tuliw, Malinao, Albay province, Philippines)
- Maiden name: Chavez Uy
- Married name: Ferrer Kuchiam (Lo) - took husband’s surname
- Heritage: Chinese-Filipino (father was Chinese, mother was Filipino)
- Religion: Devout Catholic
- Region: Bicol region of Philippines
- Spouse: Benito Lo Kuchiam
- Children: Betty Chan (1935-2022), one son (name unknown)
Family Background
Mixed Heritage
- Father: Chinese (name not recorded)
- Mother: Filipino (name not recorded)
- From Tuliw, Malinao, Albay province in the Bicol region of Philippines
- Represented the blending of Chinese and Filipino cultures common in Philippine history
Marriage
- Married Benito-Lo-Kuchiam, a Chinese businessman from Fujian province
- Moved to Daet, Camarines Norte, Philippines where husband ran copra export business
- Lived in two-story house with husband’s office and warehouse
Faith and Character
Devout Catholicism
Ines was a devout Catholic whose faith sustained her family through multiple crises:
- Prayed constantly during family’s hiding from Japanese soldiers
- Her prayers were credited (by Betty) with family’s survival: “By the Grace of God”
- Raised daughter Betty as Catholic despite husband’s Chinese background
- Ensured Betty prepared for First Communion at Binondo Church during war
- Attended St. Scholastica’s convent school
Strength During Crisis
Betty’s narrative repeatedly emphasizes her mother’s faith during wartime:
- “Mother prayed constantly during hiding” in forest cave while Japanese soldiers searched
- Maintained composure when Japanese soldiers entered their Manila home on liberation day
- Was cooking Palitaw dessert when Japanese soldiers arrived asking for food
- Gave them the dessert calmly
- About an hour later, American soldiers arrived for liberation
World War II Experience
Flight from Daet (1940s)
When husband refused to collaborate with Japanese and fled:
- Left home with family immediately in small motorless boat
- Wooden navigator broke near shore with large rocks
- Accepted Filipino neighbors’ offer of vacation house on island
- Took refuge in forest cave when Japanese soldiers approached
Island Hiding
- Hid with family in forest cave while Japanese searched
- Prayed constantly during the hiding
- Japanese did not find them
- Betty credits survival to mother’s prayers: “By the Grace of God”
Family Refuge
After losing Daet home and business to Japanese occupation:
- Family moved to her hometown village (mother’s family location)
- Cousin Conching (young lady) had to hide far from village whenever Japanese soldiers wandered through
- Provided family with safe haven in her ancestral community
Manila Years (1942-1945)
- Moved with family to Manila when husband sought better opportunities
- Lived in Binondo (Chinese district) in three-story house beside river
- Japanese garrison directly across the river
- Aunt (Jimmy’s mother) and husband lived with them
- Ensured Betty continued education, living with Uncle Linda’s family on weekdays
Liberation Day
Memorable moment recorded by Betty:
- Was cooking Palitaw dessert when Japanese soldiers entered asking for food
- Gave them the dessert
- About an hour later, American soldiers arrived in weapons carriers/tanks
- MacArthur’s promise fulfilled: “I Shall Return”
- Family survived the war intact
Post-War Life
Family in Manila
After war ended:
- Family settled in Manila
- Daughter Betty attended St. Scholastica’s College
- Betty graduated with mathematics degree in 1956
- Husband died in 1956 after Betty’s graduation
Betty’s Marriage and Chinese Traditions
After husband’s death in 1956:
- Chinese tradition: Betty had to get engaged within 100 days of father’s death or wait two years
- Hosted traditional Chinese engagement ceremony:
- Groom’s uncles and aunts came bearing gifts: diamonds, jade, 24 pieces of cloth, Rolex watch, cash
- Ines gave groom: suiting material, Rolex watch, cash
- All guests served noodle soup with boiled eggs
- Betty married in 1957
Later Life
- Grandmother to four grandchildren: Rose Chan Loui (1960), Meg Chan Feitelberg (1963), John Louis Chan (1965), Michelle Chan Ng (1968)
- Great-grandmother to eight great-grandchildren including Nicholas Loui, Ryan Loui, Samantha Loui
Cultural Identity
Bicol Heritage
- From Albay province in Bicol region
- Part of Filipino cultural identity despite mixed Chinese heritage
- Maintained connection to hometown village that provided wartime refuge
Chinese-Filipino Bridge
- Married Chinese businessman, integrated into Chinese business community
- Maintained Filipino cultural identity and Catholic faith
- Raised daughter with both Chinese and Filipino influences
- Represents the Chinese-Filipino communities that built Philippines’ commercial sector
Catholic Faith in Chinese Household
- Maintained strong Catholic practice despite husband’s Chinese background
- Ensured daughter received Catholic education at St. Scholastica’s
- Faith became family’s spiritual foundation across generations
Legacy
Faith and Resilience
Ines Chavez Uy exemplified:
- Unwavering faith through multiple wartime crises
- Cultural bridge between Chinese and Filipino identities
- Family protector who kept family together during displacement
- Spiritual foundation whose faith sustained daughter’s values
Generational Impact
Her devout Catholicism influenced:
- Daughter Betty (also devout Catholic)
- Grandchildren raised with strong values
- Great-grandchildren who inherited legacy of resilience
Betty’s narrative credits her mother’s prayers and faith repeatedly: “By the Grace of God” appears throughout the story after each escape and survival. This reflects Ines’s profound spiritual influence on her daughter.
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Sources
Research Needed
- Birth date
- Death date and location
- Parents’ names (Betty’s maternal grandparents)
- Father’s Chinese name and origin
- Mother’s Filipino name and family
- Siblings
- Marriage date to Benito Lo Kuchiam
- How family met (Chinese businessman and Chinese-Filipino woman)
- Photos
- More details about hometown Tuliw, Malinao
- Post-war life after husband’s death
- When did she pass away?
Historical Significance
Ines Chavez Uy’s story represents:
- Chinese-Filipino identity - Mixed heritage that defined many Philippine families
- Catholic faith under duress - Spiritual resilience during war
- WWII civilian experience - Women protecting families during occupation
- Bicol region history - Regional identity and family networks
- Post-war family recovery - Rebuilding after displacement and loss
- Matriarchal strength - Single mother after husband’s death in 1956
- Cultural transmission - Passing faith and values across four generations
Her story illustrates the often-overlooked role of women in sustaining families through war, displacement, and rebuilding, relying on faith, family networks, and resilience.